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"Running in Memory of
Dalton Blakley"
Brian
Blakley misses his son.
“I miss his wittiness, the things he’d say. I miss playing sports
with him, just being around him,” Blakley says, then pauses and
drops his head. “I miss everything about him, really.”
Dalton died June 27 at the age of 13. He had been battling a form of
cancer, neuroblastoma, for more than a year.
The loss has been agonizing for Blakley, his family, friends and
members of the Astoria community where Dalton lived, played baseball
and excelled in school.
Yet, through the sadness, Blakley possesses a strength and a drive
to ensure that Dalton’s memory lives on. He also wants to draw
attention to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, where Dalton
spent much of the final year of his life.
“The people at St. Jude became his secondary family,” Blakley said.
“It’s just a really important place. At St. Jude, they’re driven by
saving children’s lives and finding a cure for cancer.”
Blakley already was familiar with St. Jude because his 16-year-old
son Brody was diagnosed with a type of liver cancer when he was a
1-year-old. “St. Jude saved his life,” he said.
Because of that, and because of how the hospital cared for Dalton,
Blakley wants to give back. He will come to Quincy on Friday to
participate in the St. Jude Quincy to Peoria Run.
The Astoria man who works at Dot Foods in Mount Sterling is one of
nearly 60 area runners and volunteers who will raise awareness — and
money — for the hospital in Memphis, Tenn., and its Midwest
Affiliate in Peoria.
The runners begin their journey at 5:30 p.m. Friday at County
Market, 30th and Broadway, and continue relay-style for 135 miles
until about 4 p.m. Saturday when they reach the Civic Center in
Peoria, where they will join runners from Memphis and 17 other
running groups for the annual St. Jude Telethon.
“The runners are already motivated. But maybe I can offer some
inspiration to push a little harder,” Blakley said. “I will run when
I
can. Mainly, I will be talking to runners, going from motor home
to motor home telling Dalton’s and Brody’s stories.”
A poignant moment on the trip is sure to be a stop in Dalton’s
hometown of Astoria at about 5:30 a.m. Saturday. Community members
are planning to greet the runners and treat them to pastries, water
and other goodies.
It was at the Astoria stop during the 2006 run when the Quincy
contingent first learned about Dalton. He had been diagnosed with
neuroblastoma just 10 weeks earlier, on May 25.
Neuroblastoma is a cancer that forms in the peripheral nervous
tissue. Blakley says he noticed Dalton was more tired than
usual and decided to take him to the doctor. A tumor the size of a
softball was discovered under his left adrenal gland. He was
transferred to a Peoria hospital and then to St. Jude in Memphis.
The neuroblastoma already was a Stage 4, or a late stage, cancer.
Dalton went through a couple of weeks of chemotherapy, then had an
operation July 11, in which 99 percent of the tumor was removed.
That was followed with more than 30 weeks of chemotherapy.
Treatments took place at both the Memphis and Peoria sites.
St. Jude then sent Dalton to Cincinnati Children’s Hospital in
Cincinnati, Ohio, for an experimental treatment called MIBG.
MIBG (Meta-Iodo-Benzyl-Guanidine) is a chemical attached to
radioactive iodine, which is injected to attack the neuroblastoma
cells. A stem cell transplant was planned for March, but then
doctors discovered Dalton had veno-occlusive disease as a result of
chemotherapy. The disease causes a blockage of small veins in the
liver.
“We were waiting on a drug from
Italy (to treat the VOD). It’s not available in the U.S. I’m not
sure why, and something needs to be done about it,” Blakley said.
The drug arrived on the day that
Dalton died. “He was extremely tough,” Blakley said of how
well his son handled being sick. “He was smiling right up to the
end. He made it a lot easier on all of us. His strength and
perseverance, he made it so we could cope.” Dalton’s strength
continues to inspire Blakley and Dalton’s mom, Pamela, who lives in
Peoria. Yet, their grief is heavy.
“We get out of bed every morning and go on. But we feel a little
cheated, too,” Blakley said. “Neuroblastoma is a terrible cancer and
we need to strive harder to find a cure.”
Because of the research done at St. Jude since its founding in 1962,
five-year survival rates have increased dramatically for many
pediatric cancers. For example, the survival rate for acute
lymphoblastic leukemia jumped from 4 percent in 1962 to 94 percent
today.

Six other common pediatric cancers now have five-year survival rates
above 85 percent. Yet for neuroblastoma, it’s 55 percent.
Blakley says that’s why the St. Jude Run is so important, to help
fund research to find better treatments and cures.
“Hopefully some good can come out of Dalton’s death and we can save
other children,” he said.
Blakley also emphasizes that it takes more than $1.2 million to
operate the hospital each day, and most of that comes from
donations.
St. Jude, founded by the late entertainer Danny Thomas, is the only
pediatric cancer research center where families never pay for
treatments that are not covered by insurance, and families without
insurance are never asked to pay. St. Jude also helps with lodging,
food and travel for patients and families. “It’s like a
security blanket,” Blakley said, describing the care shown to both
the children and their families. St. Jude treats the children
to a variety of activities and experiences to help take their mind
off their treatments, if only for a short while. Dalton had the
chance to meet Zakk Wylde, guitarist for Ozzy Osbourne, and actress
Anne Hathaway. He went to a Memphis Grizzlies game and got a ride in
a NASCAR race car.
“Dalton held St. Jude close to his heart,” he added. “He would be
happy with what we’re doing.”
To donate to the St. Jude Quincy
to Peoria Run, call run coordinator Rick Meehan at (217) 779-2358.
By Kelly Wilson
Herald-Whig Staff Writer
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